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How to Help My
Child With Writing –
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This segment is
contributed by Mrs. Sandra Rief.
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Of all academic skills, it is most common for children/adolescents with
AD/HD to have the greatest difficulty with written language. Writing is such
a struggle because it involves the integration of numerous skills and
processes which are often their areas of weakness. These include:
forethought and pre-planning, language structure and expression, spelling,
attention to detail and the boring job of editing, the physical task of
writing and fine motor control, visual organization on the page, motor
memory of letter formation, and the speed of written output. It is quite
common among students with AD/HD to be able to articulate the most creative,
amazing stories, but not be able to write down more than a few sentences.
This is very frustrating for all – the student, parents, and teachers. The
following are suggested ways to provide support and assistance to your child
in just two aspects of writing - getting them started, and helping with
editing.
Getting them
Started: Pre-Planning:
Realize that it may
take your child much longer than many other students to create written
products. It is, therefore, important to try to get a ‘jump start’ on any
written assignments. Ask the teacher to send home the assignment description
and directions as early as possible.
Make a few extra copies of the assignment sheet and post in strategic
locations in your home.
If there is any ambiguity about the assignment (it isn’t clear to you or
your child what needs to be done), contact the teacher immediately. Make
sure teacher expectations for the assignment are clarified.
Note: Recently, the
trend in most school districts is that teacher assignments are designed to
address the state/district content and performance standards for each grade
level. Each grade has certain content and skills which must be taught, and
performance criteria is given as to whether students demonstrate that skill
‘at standard’, ‘below standard’ or ‘above standard’. As a result, when
giving students writing assignments, many teachers are now providing a
rubric along with the assignment. A rubric is a tool for scoring/evaluating
(i.e., 1-5 scale or 0-4 scale) a student’s piece of work based on different
criteria that have been provided. Rubrics can be generic or created to
address specific needs.
- See an example of
a rubric -
Rubrics are very
useful tools not only for evaluation of the final written product, but for
pre-organizing and pre-structuring how to write the paper. They are very
helpful to students with AD/HD because they provide the structure and
guidance they so critically need to help them meet their grade level writing
standards.
Sometimes open-ended writing assignments are most frustrating - trying to
think of a topic of interest to write about. With these types of
assignments, you can help your child by talking with him or her about
experiences shared. Ask specific questions that might trigger topics of
interest. (Example, "Do you remember how you felt when you dove off the high
board for the first time?"). Help your child try to find a topic that he/she
will be motivated to write about.
Graphic organizers are used by teachers at all grade levels and subject
areas. They are very useful tools to help students visually organize
ideas/concepts/topics. They greatly enhance comprehension of subject matter,
and are very helpful in the writing process for pre-organizing thoughts
prior to writing. Many teachers will automatically provide a graphic
organizer (or a few to choose from) for a writing assignment. If your
child’s teachers don’t routinely use these tools or provide this
pre-structuring assistance, there are many books that contain a variety of
graphic organizers. Check at an educational supply store. There is also
wonderful software available (i.e., Inspiration Software, Inc.) for
designing graphic organizers – and is very user-friendly and motivating. An
example of a commonly used graphic organizer is a ‘web’ – with a central
idea or topic written in the center (usually with a box or circle around
it), and lines coming out from that center (like spokes on a wheel). Each
line is a subtopic related to the main/central idea. Each of those subtopics
can be further broken down into more details surrounding those individual
subtopics.
This assistance at the pre-writing stage is often the most valuable. Any
opportunity to teach our AD/HD children to plan and organize before
beginning an academic task is well worth our time and energy.
More Ways to Help Them Get Started:
Encourage your
child to verbalize what he or she wants to say first. It is often helpful to
do so into a tape recorder, which can then be played back and listened to.
This way, your child can organize his or her thoughts – planning what he/she
wants to say and determining if it makes sense before even beginning to
write.
Use index cards for writing down ideas (i.e., topics, subtopics, details).
It is easy to then spread them out, move them around, and cluster them
together appropriately before writing. They can also be color-coded
according to topic. For example, any words, phrases, sentences, information
related to a particular topic could be written on index cards coded in the
same color.
Let your child dictate the first couple of lines or paragraphs to you while
you write them down. This often helps children who have trouble activating
or getting started. Once they have this start, many times they are then able
to continue independently.
Feedback and Editing Assistance:
You wouldn’t want
to interrupt your child if he or she is ‘on a roll’ in order to offer
feedback. However, if what your child is writing is ‘off target’ to what the
guidelines for the assignment indicate must be included, it is probably less
frustrating to help redirect your child before he/she has written a lot.
When providing feedback to your child, be careful not to be critical or
negative. State at least one positive comment about what he or she has
written. Then, if your child’s written work is missing key elements you may
ask for clarification. For example: "I’m not sure I understand what you mean
in this sentence…You might want to add more information here so it makes
sense to your reader."
It is often hard to get the cooperation or motivation from your AD/HD child
for this kind of detail work – editing. If it becomes a huge battle to go
back and do this task, put it aside and try tackling later. If it always
becomes a negative experience at home, let the teacher know the problem and
ask for more help at school. It would be better to limit your involvement
with editing. Many times kids are much more willing to accept corrective
feedback or be willing to make corrections if suggested by someone other
than parents.
Ways to Help with Editing:
Read the written
work aloud with your child while pointing to each word. Doing so, your son
or daughter should be able to hear if what he or she wrote was what he/she
had meant to say.
If this is a rough draft, some misspelled words may be pointed out and
corrected, but don’t worry about more than a few at a time. A rough draft is
a work in progress and it’s not your responsibility to identify or correct
all the ‘flaws’.
Do help if you notice incomplete sentences by asking questions to complete
the thought (e.g., so that the sentence can be fixed to include both a
subject and a predicate).
Encourage your child to check for capitalization and final punctuation
marks.
It is helpful to have lists of words available to improve your child’s
writing. For example, words that describe feelings (delighted, anxious),
words to use instead of ‘said’ (demanded, whispered, announced, hollered).
Models or lists of ‘connector’ or ‘transition’ words such as: words used to
compare things (i.e., in the same way, similarly, likewise) words used to
contrast things (i.e., on the other hand, however, yet) words used to
summarize (i.e., in conclusion, consequently).
If your child writes very simple, basic sentences you may ask who, what,
where, when questions to elicit information and details to help them expand
their thoughts and write more interesting sentences. Part of the issue may
be that your child is deliberately writing less descriptive sentences to
avoid having to physically write down so many words.
Helping with the Final Product:
Parents often need
to provide support and assistance to their children at the ‘final product’
stage. If you help your child type final draft copies, make it a
collaborative effort to whatever extent possible. Have your son or daughter
participate and type a portion – which could be a few words, sentence(s),
paragraph(s), or page(s) – depending on the age of your child and his/her
capabilities.
Assistance with projects requiring gluing, mounting, arranging spatially,
etc. is often needed. Your guidance and overseeing to avoid the frustration
your child will experience if his or her project doesn’t ‘look good’ is
helpful. You will want to make sure your impulsive child first organizes and
spatially arranges the layout prior to gluing/pasting or mounting.
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